If you can't talk to your partner about whether or not you're ready to have sex, then you're not ready. Talking about having sex might seem embarrassing, but it's a lot better than having to worry afterwards that you might have a sexually transmitted infection (STI) or that you are pregnant.

Below are some tips to good communication.

Say what is truly on your mind – your honesty will encourage your partner to be honest too.

Don't wait until the heat of the moment to bring up using condoms and lubricant – talk about it before the situation arises.

Try not to be scared of rejection – using condoms doesn't mean you and your partner don't trust each other.

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You are definitely not ready for sex if you and your partner haven't talked about protecting yourselves against sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and unplanned pregnancy. You need to make decisions about protection before (not during!) vaginal, anal, or oral sex. Don't wait until the heat of the moment to bring it up.

Find out about different types of contraception available and decide together what methods you'll use before the situation arises.

Remember: condoms used with lubricant are the only method of contraception that reduces the risk of STIs and unplanned pregnancy上海新茶工作室联系方式. Lubricant is important because it helps make sure the condom doesn't break during sex.

If your partner doesn't want to talk about contraception, then they are not ready for sex.